Remember: Silence protects Violence.
No one should ever be afraid to be themselves.
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/Documents/Abuse and Violence Warning Signs.doc
Do not mistake controlling intimidation for protective strength.
/Documents/PROFILE OF AN ABUSER.doc
Some women are surprised to recognize these traits when they thought their situation was the only one like it.
/Documents/LEARNED RESPONSES OF THE VICTIM.doc
In order to survive, sometimes we give up ourselves.
/Documents/SAFETY GUIDELINES.doc
It may be difficult to face, but you have to protect yourself and your children.
Friends and/or Family Memberscannot remain neutral regarding the issue of domestic violence. Sometimes they’re the only ones who have access to survivors and who can help the survivor get support.
What You Can Do:Educate yourself. Learn about the issues and resources available, including emergency numbers to call. Pass this information along.Listen without judgment, believe without underestimating the level of danger, and respect the victim’s decision, even if you disagree. Help the victim recognize abuse and its effects.Offer practical assistance: develop a secret phrase for the victim to use when she is in trouble and respond to it. Offer transportation and baby-sitting services. Keep a change of clothes for the victim.Do not put yourself in danger by physically intervening. Call the police.
This is a common and predictable cycle. As time goes on, the cycle shortens with less time between incidents. Click here to view document as a full page.
